As many of us, maybe not all us knows the educational, knowledge and information available for prospective adoptive parents is pretty massive and filled, with pre teen courses for adoptive parents with teens as well as the supposedly mandatory baby classes and children's activities. That is the easy part, almost everyone is more or less prepared for the time that lies ahead at least as much as one could expect.
The tricky part for adoptive parents is the possible and likely chance of being confronted with a birth family search and possible reunion somewhere down the road, not that every adoptee actually goes through with this but still the chances are that they will. What I've found really lacking is the follow up after reunion because some of the adoptees will be forced to change their whole thinking , not that every adoptee is forced into changing their identity... But some may feel that they are influenced in a certain direction which might create a new understanding of themselves. This where many adoptive parents might become threatened if the child displays tendencies, emotions and actions that speaks in favour of them reconnecting with their birth family or birth parents...
Why isn't there a support system for those adoptees... Are there? I doubt it exists in Sweden but would be neccessary sometimes...
♥쳐음은안녕. Bye for now.♥
© Taste of Kimchi, Elle
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