- When prospective adoptive parents is informed of an available child they very often pressume it is an orphan or child who needs to be rescued from a very bad life
- Almost immediately or even before getting the message they've been waiting for so long to recieve they start to think of babynames, Swedish baby names
- They don't even consider the need for the child to gain knowledge and experiences of Korean culture other then from fellow adoptive families and such
- They truly seem to believe that adoption the child's happiness is restored and their original culture and possible memories of it is also erased
- They repeat, remind and tell the adoptive child mostly indirectly or by minor indications the child was saved and therefore should be grateful towards his or her's new parents
- By impossing the belief that child should be forever grateful the child may at first truly start to believe this; what adoptive parents not only wants the child to believe but also very much belives themeselves
- An adoptee that has been saved and gained a new loving family should be happy and not become critical towards international adoption or especially Korean adoption...
♥쳐금은안녕. Bye for now.♥
My Adoptive Parents A Real Contradiction
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